Dennis Hof Refuses to Pay $1400 to Former Working Girl

[SIDEWINDER]

They "Dated".  Don't date your boss. Duh!

There are also some clients (like myself) who don't want to party with someone who has partied with the boss. The two that I have asked gave given the "Eeeewwwwww" reaction. I am pretty sure they were both being truthful. It's not like I don't understand that these girls party with other guys, but something about being intimate with the boss just weirds me out.

Now this is something I really don't understand. What would  be the difference  between a working girl partying with another customer or partying with the owner? Not un less you're afraid she might give details of your party to the brothel owner while they are fucking. Other then that, I can't see what the difference is whether she fucks the owner or ten different customers.

The most prominent difference would be that the owner has a degree of authority over the lady that a customer does not.

That might be true but why would that stop a customer from partying with the lady? Ya know, this sounds like the old arguments we use to hear many years ago where a feller would not party with a lady if he saw her walking a customer to the door after having a party with him.  As if he expected the woman he was going to pay to have sex with had not had parties with other men before him?

[ancient mariner]

The way you phrased the question, it sounded like you were asking what the difference between a commercial transaction with a customer and an owner having sex with a contractor at their brothel was.

As far as it impacting selection of a companion, it is fatuous to expect exclusivity in a brothel.

[SIDEWINDER]

the way I understood the original statement was not wanting to have sex with a working woman if she was having sex with the owner. I didn't and still don't see what difference it makes if she had sex with the owner or with another customer.

[Gobemouche]

I think the level of control is the sole determining factor. I also think that it works both ways.

[scrt_sqrl]

They "Dated".  Don't date your boss. Duh!

There are also some clients (like myself) who don't want to party with someone who has partied with the boss. The two that I have asked gave given the "Eeeewwwwww" reaction. I am pretty sure they were both being truthful. It's not like I don't understand that these girls party with other guys, but something about being intimate with the boss just weirds me out.

Now this is something I really don't understand. What would  be the difference  between a working girl partying with another customer or partying with the owner? Not un less you're afraid she might give details of your party to the brothel owner while they are fucking. Other then that, I can't see what the difference is whether she fucks the owner or ten different customers.

The most prominent difference would be that the owner has a degree of authority over the lady that a customer does not.

That might be true but why would that stop a customer from partying with the lady? Ya know, this sounds like the old arguments we use to hear many years ago where a feller would not party with a lady if he saw her walking a customer to the door after having a party with him.  As if he expected the woman he was going to pay to have sex with had not had parties with other men before him?

For me, I think it has something to do with the authority factor. It's funny, as far as I have heard, and I could be wrong, is that bartenders, etc. that work at his houses are not allowed to party with the ladies there. It's definitely, a power /control thing. Let's be honest, I doubt any of these girls would sleep with him if he was a used car salesman that they bumped into at the local bar.

It is also the fact that I am not one of the guys who hangs out and brings 5 of his friends with when I go. I very well know what the ladies do and that they have other clients, but I really don't want it shoved in my face,,,,more or less out of sight, out of mind. Believe me, I am no prize but I have seen some of the men that these girls party with. That is more than enough information for me and I try to not get there too early before my appointment so I don't have to see who I am following up.

But ya know, it is every man to himself, his tastes and his preferences. If someone wants to tag-team a girl with Hof, it's not for me to say anything. It's just not my thing.

[sportsman]

TOO BAD  DENNIS HOF DOESN'T POST...
 THERE HAV BEEN SO MAny totally way out comments made on this subject as to defy a logical solution to this disagreement...

[SIDEWINDER]

TOO BAD  DENNIS HOF DOESN'T POST...
 THERE HAV BEEN SO MAny totally way out comments made on this subject as to defy a logical solution to this disagreement...

That's right sporty, with Sonja on vacation, he has no way to post.

[Bobbi]

In most other industries, sexual advances are usually the grounds for sexual harassment lawsuits. It should be the same in this business
This is much more a gray area in the Brothel industry, but again not opening that door in the first place is probably less risky legally for the owner.

                                     
Sexual Harassment is just that Harassment and should never be tolerated any in industry..

If a brothel owner has 'needs' on the sex front, they can visit the other houses instead, as other houses are available.
you should never play in your own Brothel.
I know of one brothel owner specifically that does this; i.e. parties at houses they don't own/manage, so as to not make their own ladies uncomfortable.
Sounds like a smart person to me......

[Ewysiwg]

TOO BAD  DENNIS HOF DOESN'T POST...
 THERE HAV BEEN SO MAny totally way out comments made on this subject as to defy a logical solution to this disagreement...

Suzette posts here anytime there's significant information Team BR wishes to put out there. Or misinformation as her last post would have it.

[SIDEWINDER]

In most other industries, sexual advances are usually the grounds for sexual harassment lawsuits. It should be the same in this business
This is much more a gray area in the Brothel industry, but again not opening that door in the first place is probably less risky legally for the owner.

                                     
Sexual Harassment is just that Harassment and should never be tolerated any in industry..

If a brothel owner has 'needs' on the sex front, they can visit the other houses instead, as other houses are available.
you should never play in your own Brothel.
I know of one brothel owner specifically that does this; i.e. parties at houses they don't own/manage, so as to not make their own ladies uncomfortable.
Sounds like a smart person to me......

Bobbi, would you trust another brothel owner to party with your women? Or would you have suspicions he was trying to snatch your best working girls to work at his brothel?

Just me but I would have suspicions. Especially if it's a brothel that has to run their women between two different brothels to cover a shortage of women.

[Oddball]

In most other industries, sexual advances are usually the grounds for sexual harassment lawsuits. It should be the same in this business
This is much more a gray area in the Brothel industry, but again not opening that door in the first place is probably less risky legally for the owner.

                                     
Sexual Harassment is just that Harassment and should never be tolerated any in industry..

If a brothel owner has 'needs' on the sex front, they can visit the other houses instead, as other houses are available.
you should never play in your own Brothel.
I know of one brothel owner specifically that does this; i.e. parties at houses they don't own/manage, so as to not make their own ladies uncomfortable.
Sounds like a smart person to me......

Bobbi, would you trust another brothel owner to party with your women? Or would you have suspicions he was trying to snatch your best working girls to work at his brothel?

Just me but I would have suspicions. Especially if it's a brothel that has to run their women between two different brothels to cover a shortage of women.

Sidey, it's called supporting each other's brothels.  Out in the rural communities of Nevada, the brothel owners often converse with each other regularly.  Part of good customer service is being able to point a customer to what he is looking for, if you don't have it on hand.  The customer will remember your being helpful, and thus will be more willing to return to your establishment at a later date.

I've noted several brothel owners that do exactly this.  "You might want to check with these other brothels, their ladies might be what you had in mind".

And I've seen brothel owners treat each other quite well in these visits to other establishments.  Letting good party money walk out the door, especially in this tough economy, is just silly.

And ladies move around all the time.  They ARE independent contractors, and it is ultimately up to them where they want to work.  Brothel owners aren't pimps.  They don't own their ladies.  This isn't slavery here.  If a lady sees a better opportunity at another establishment, that's her call.

[SIDEWINDER]

In most other industries, sexual advances are usually the grounds for sexual harassment lawsuits. It should be the same in this business
This is much more a gray area in the Brothel industry, but again not opening that door in the first place is probably less risky legally for the owner.

                                     
Sexual Harassment is just that Harassment and should never be tolerated any in industry..

If a brothel owner has 'needs' on the sex front, they can visit the other houses instead, as other houses are available.
you should never play in your own Brothel.
I know of one brothel owner specifically that does this; i.e. parties at houses they don't own/manage, so as to not make their own ladies uncomfortable.
Sounds like a smart person to me......

Bobbi, would you trust another brothel owner to party with your women? Or would you have suspicions he was trying to snatch your best working girls to work at his brothel?

Just me but I would have suspicions. Especially if it's a brothel that has to run their women between two different brothels to cover a shortage of women.

Sidey, it's called supporting each other's brothels.  Out in the rural communities of Nevada, the brothel owners often converse with each other regularly.  Part of good customer service is being able to point a customer to what he is looking for, if you don't have it on hand.  The customer will remember your being helpful, and thus will be more willing to return to your establishment at a later date.

Well, it sounds nice in theory but from some of the things I've seen, it's not always the way it works. So you really don't think some brothel owners wouldn't snatch up working girls from other brothels if they felt it could make them money? Maybe fill their head with empty promises in order to get them to leave the brothel they are currently working at?

BTW: If you notice, I'm not mentioning names.

[madison_graham]

Kristsygave BunnyRanch an undeliverable address lol

FACT

client wrote check in July , paid off check in cash Sept 5

Bunnyranch check was sent to the address Krissy gave CFO ON Sept 6th

Check was received back at Bunnyranch Sept 17th as address undeliverable , with mod approval I will post envelope showing post office label say
UNDELIVERABLE

Krissy has apologized for her remarks and mistake.

Sorry to ruin everyone's fun.

Krissy was truly loved Dennis and was never "sexually harassed" as you say.   She is an adult woman who made a choice to become sexually involved in Dennis and I really like Krissy.   

[Oddball]

I'm not mentioning names either Sidey, as said brothel owners don't like to be the center of attention.  That being said, yes there are some 'unscrupulous' owners out there, but others are good eggs at the end of the day.  It depends on the person in question, which is why I don't think painting all brothel owners with the same brush is fair (we have all kinds in LPIN).

[SIDEWINDER]

I'm not mentioning names either Sidey, as said brothel owners don't like to be the center of attention.  That being said, yes there are some 'unscrupulous' owners out there, but others are good eggs at the end of the day.  It depends on the person in question, which is why I don't think painting all brothel owners with the same brush is fair (we have all kinds in LPIN).

With brothels being bought up everyday or consolidated, One brush is all you'll need in the future.