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fantasygirl

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Not everyone likes their work
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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Yeah, from what I've read she didn't have much of a choice. Makes you really think about the "choices" some women and girls have. Think twice before you party with a woman that has a pimp or started out on their 18th birthday.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Yeah, from what I've read she didn't have much of a choice. Makes you really think about the "choices" some women and girls have. Think twice before you party with a woman that has a pimp or started out on their 18th birthday.

The article didn't really mention much in the way of details about what her situation was.  I think if I were forced to do anything I didn't want to do - I would be angry, too.

I solidly believe this can't be a job - it has to be a calling.  This is no vocation for a woman who doesn't love sex or men.   I marvel at the women who say they just want "easy money" when they don't actually care for the activity.  If you don't love sex & men - it is NOT easy money.  It seems to me it would be the hardest money on the planet. 

Of course - if a woman is forced or coerced or feels she has no other options - that's obviously worse.  At least in the legal brothels - a guy can feel pretty damn sure she is there by choice.  I know the ladies I work with are self-empowered and have freely chosen to do what they do.  That makes all the difference in the world.




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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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The site states that she started out at 14 and felt she had no other real options.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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I'll get negged for this but I don't fucking care. Girl, cry me a fucking river. I'm sorry to hear of your circumstances and all but if hookers are my only option for getting laid, than that's all there is to it. If hookers are my only option for getting out certain desires that I could never do with a wife or a girlfriend, then so be it. Boo hoo ;-; I'm a gentle rapist, well maybe with the shit I have to deal with throughout my life, I don't always want to relieve that stress by simply beating off all the time.

Some girls do this because it's easy money and good for them. I support those girls. I support a girl making $200 to suck dick for an hour as opposed to sweating her tail off and be lucky to get tipped as a waitress say at Olive Garden or Applebee's.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Ice storm you're right. Your sexual desires are much more important than some woman.  :o

You're disgusting. I hope you never have sex again.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Think twice before you party with a woman that has a pimp or started out on their 18th birthday.

  If only they all carried signs.  The closest thing to a calling card for cases like that is a tattoo, but that's far from a fool proof methodology.
  For all of the shortcomings of LPIN, it's greatest advantage is probably the opportunity to meet and converse with the women in a brothel before committing to any sort of business.  I've chatted with a few ladies who clearly didn't want to be where they were, and it prevented me from partying with them; to this day I hope they've found better circumstances.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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I'll get negged for this but I don't fucking care. Girl, cry me a fucking river. I'm sorry to hear of your circumstances and all but if hookers are my only option for getting laid, than that's all there is to it. If hookers are my only option for getting out certain desires that I could never do with a wife or a girlfriend, then so be it. Boo hoo ;-; I'm a gentle rapist, well maybe with the shit I have to deal with throughout my life, I don't always want to relieve that stress by simply beating off all the time.


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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Ice storm you're right. Your sexual desires are much more important than some woman.  :o

You're disgusting. I hope you never have sex again.

Why thank you. : D

Look, sometimes when I see something and pisses me off, I will fire off a response that will make people think "What the fucking fuck is he smoking to think those kinds of thoughts?" I don't support a girl (especially one that is 14) being forced into prostitution obviously however if a girl chooses to sell herself by choice, than that is that. There are certain issues or ways certain issues are addressed that cause me to pull a hair trigger and I go absolutely batshit.

I wonder if this level of batshit would earn me a spot as a tea party Republican politician and a segment on Bill Maher. : D

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Think twice before you party with a woman that has a pimp or started out on their 18th birthday.

  If only they all carried signs.  The closest thing to a calling card for cases like that is a tattoo, but that's far from a fool proof methodology.
  For all of the shortcomings of LPIN, it's greatest advantage is probably the opportunity to meet and converse with the women in a brothel before committing to any sort of business.  I've chatted with a few ladies who clearly didn't want to be where they were, and it prevented me from partying with them; to this day I hope they've found better circumstances.

Hehehe, tattoo. Yep like a big tittie tat, neck tat, or tat around the thighs. Ya know ...something like... I <3 Pita gun/skull/paw print xxx... LOL.... (sorry Pita couldn't resist)... I see girls like that on backpage, I generally tend to pass them up for other options, sometimes even legal like a remote NV bordello.  ;) ;D

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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Hehehe, tattoo. Yep like a big tittie tat, neck tat, or tat around the thighs. Ya know ...something like... I <3 Pita gun/skull/paw print xxx... LOL.... (sorry Pita couldn't resist)... I see girls like that on backpage, I generally tend to pass them up for other options, sometimes even legal like a remote NV bordello.  ;) ;D

Libertine

Any mention of me is always appreciated. I am not a people pimp but a sandwich pimp.

If y'all think about it every woman has a three dimensional tattoo of a pita on her body. Some are overstuffed and some are teeny weeny.

Keep mentioning me y'all. It gives me a boner.

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Re: Not everyone likes their work
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She ran away from an abusive home at 14, and started prostitution at 15, with no mental/emotional resources to live a decent life.
She hasn't really grown up mentally/emotionally since then.
The narcotics addiction didn't help no doubt ;-)

Still the same child/victim mentality, wanting parents -> the state to fix things for her
(to make amends for when her parents failed her, so she can now feel ok).
But the powerless/victims cannot ever truly create, they can only manipulate/take from others.

Her arrogant dogmatic line - "my experience of prostitution is the only possible experience, it's all degrading ...", "all men who see prostitutes are..." is that of a child: self-centered, overly simplistic.
And overly dramatic - elsewhere she whines about the "verbal contempt and scorn" that customers pour on women in reviews.  I read some reviews at www.escort-ireland.com, no contempt in them.  One can search for unhappy reviews, and the worst is "her pictures were old", "she rushed me out" type stuff.  (BTW - they have a page for anti-trafficking resources).
I'm wondering if this 37 year old (now) woman (who "was prostituted" until age 22) isn't embellishing her stories a bit.  (or found religion or at least the guilt trip thereof, or is just sad and miserable and wants to "do something" to be a hero).

With such immaturity, and such shame, building/growing/gnawing at her day by day, she finally becomes so shameless that she bursts out of her shell.  And ignorantly tries to get rid of her shame by dumping on others.
Won't work, can't work, never has worked.  It takes real therapy to heal, to give the shame back to the offenders.
But it's easier to play righteous victim (especially when churches and politicians encourage it), which unfortunately spreads even more shame in the world, causing more violence.

She's from Ireland - land of the saints - and arrogant sexism, courtesy of the Catholic Church.
They finally got divorce (banned since 1937) a few years back, when some sense came over them about the "scourge of Ireland" - incest.

Prostitution per say is legal in Ireland, but like in LPIN, officially frowned upon.
Women can't work together in (legal) brothel to protect themselves.
This survey says many prostitutes don't report crimes to the police, because they fear exposure by the police/courts.
http://www.independent.ie/irish-news/threequarters-of-irish-prostitutes-have-gone-to-college-29596522.html

It also says that in 159 females, 16 males and 17 transgenders, NONE started under the age of 16.

The prostitutes denounce the Irish government's health service for them, saying it's anti sex-work.
And note that the Dail (lower house of the Irish parliament) did not consult any sex workers in their proposal to criminalise the purchase of sex, but they did hear from a large number of anti-prostitution and religious groups.

Interesting article about prostitution in Ireland.
When it was outside the law, no troubles.  Then the "reformers" "fixed things" and now it's a mess.
Kinda like LPIN - can't advertise...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_the_Republic_of_Ireland

About Sweden, where a woman had her children taken away (because she was a prostitute) and given to her partner, a known violent abusive man who subsequently murdered her.
http://the-toast.net/2013/08/29/sex-workers-rights-in-sweden/
What's scary is the clip of a femi-nazi in charge of "helping women" telling the reporter not to expect any help at a women's shelter.

Total adolescent clique behaviour - "be exactly like us or we get to be mean to you".

That link was from another post at xojane
http://www.xojane.com/issues/shut-up-about-how-i-should-talk-about-my-sex-work