I am frequently asked by new ladies coming on board what name they should use. Since a name is very personal and - if she's a hit - she'll be living with it for a long time - I try to give guidelines rather than suggestions.
This is a recent message I sent...
The ladies page on the SIN board is alphabetical so closer to “A” is closer to the top.
Your personality… We have “Sweet Staci” & “Lady Aries” – those names reflect each ladies’ demeanor. Staci really is a “sweet girl” & Aries really is “regal”.
Your vibe - If you are hyper or very kinetic – take a name that suggests energy and movement. If you are mellow and serene – choose a name that reflects that.
Your interests… My working name was “Trinity Powers” – I am a Reiki Master & wanted an name that suggested body-mind-soul – and the fact that I was self-empowered. It also sounded like a cartoon character to me – which pleased my sense of humor…
Memorable… “Liv Wylder” “Ima Tart” are cute and paint a picture. When your name is a pun – it is more memorable.
Very Important...
The guy can understand it when you introduce yourself and he can say it to ask for you … Don’t pick some crazy long name that is spelled weird that you’ll have to repeat 3 times in the line-up.
The newest addition to our line-up at The Alien Cathouse didn't have any problem coming up with her name... Audrey - inspiring an image of Audrey Hepburn who also is a fair-skinned brunette with wit, grace, intelligence followed by West - as in the Wild West. She found a perfect name to describe her special mix of class & wild spirit.
I'm sure there are others out there who can offer some pearls of wisdom to the girls who are looking for the exact right name.
