I'm PISSED.............

[FredT]

I'm pissed.  

Last night we went into the city for dinner with some friends.  No big deal, we've known them for 20 years.  So, I found it funny that their 14 yr old daughter kept staring at me.  ( )  Then my wife comes up and tells me that it's because the friends wife had told her to be "careful" of me because I was a "pervert".  

I thought it was funny, cause the friend has the biggest porn collection I have ever seen, and continually is asking for "details" of my latest western trip....  I even went so far as to change my avatar this afternoon as a sort of back handed joking slap at him. (He lurks this board a LOT)

Then, when I get home, I get it full in the face from my wife.  It seems my "buddy" has told HIS wife (A born again asshole Christian .) all about my hobby, and SHE had told her daughter, pastor, and every one else she knows how sick I am, and how my wife is pathetic because she sticks with me.  (And she liked this whack job a lot, so she's pissed at ME)

So yep, I AM PISSED.......  And paybacks a bitch buddy, cause I am sure as shit gonna make sure that EVERYONE finds out about your porn collection and everything else you have bragged to me about.  And you know the bloodhound.  The first wiff of this and she is gonna trash your computer and build a FUCKING big bonfire with that entire video and DVD collection.   And knowing the bitch, you are NEVER gonna get between her god fearing legs again... AND IT SERVES YOU RIGHT YOU LOUDMOUTHED ASSHOLE!  

So start sweating... hide it as best you can.  you are NEVER  gonna know when I'll drop the dime.  And thats whats funny, cause I KNOW you're a bigger pervert than I will EVER be, and you don't have the will power to get rid of your collection, or even stop adding to it daily.  So be scared asshole, very scared.  Cause your loudmouthed days are numbered....  

[Lulz]

Send them this fun family album!


I don't tell many people what I do in NV, but a few I have told gets the usual "paying for sex is dumb" attitude, I then ask them how much they spend on child support then they see the light LOL (too late).  I really don't pay for sex, I pay to leave with no worries or problems.
LPIN is even cheaper than dating when you do the math.

[Curious]

Fred:

This is a real problem with letting a woman KNOW about our "hobby".

No matter WHAT you say, she WILL eventually tell her friends.

Your buddy made a HUGE error in telling his wife, who will NEVER understand you or how you think.

[afriend]

Sep 9, 12:26 AM (ET)

MIAMI (AP) - Forecasters say Hurricane Fred has formed in the eastern Atlantic Ocean with winds at 75 mph (120 kph) and is expected to strengthen.  (This is a real posting that just happens to coincide with our Fred's gale force warnings).

You are being a little easy on the guy in my opinion.  Outside of our group I have only told one person about my visits to the Brothels and I've invited him to come sometime.  I've also told him if I ever heard mention by anyone else about what I do I would know who to come looking for...

Pissed.... I'd be beyond that.

[ovr-da-hill]

One of my "constitutional" rights is to terminate friendships.  I have had to exercise that right a few times over the years for various unforgivable transgressions.  This would certainly qualify under my rules.  My advice...do the guy up tight and then forget he was ever alive!  This is the main reason I try to remain as anonymous as possible.  "Pissed"..that I think is an understatement.  Livid is closer!

[shooter]

the old saying " You can pick your frinds"  is true. So next time make sure you pick a friend who is a MAN, not a big mouthed little pussy. Did he at least buy dinner?

and the "drop a dime" thing, hell get a roll of dimes and carpet bomb the fucker!

[CookieMonster]

Golly Fred, That SUCKS!

Here's what I would do...

Show up at their door step with a "I'm Sorry" card in hand.

Ask his wife if you could speak to her for a moment, expressing that you really need to talk to someone who is God fearing because you have seen the err of your ways.

If she refuses you, then thank her and say, "well I guess It was wishful thinking that a Christian would take the opportunity to pray for me and accept my apology" AND... hand her the card and say, please accept this with my apologies.

If she let's you in, then express you deepest apologies, hand her the card, tell her that you have turned over a new leaf to be honest and forthright in your life, and you are "getting help" for your sickness.

After she expresses "shock and awe" from your previous statements, then tell her that as part of your repentance you need to ask her for forgiveness and "come clean".  Then you tell her that as much as it pains you to share this with her, let the entire cat out of the bag about her husband and his porn collection, and his peaked interest in LPIN.  Thank her for her time, and tell her that you could not turn over a new leaf whilst knowingly letting her marriage be a lie and a travesty of hidden sexual perversion.

In the card, put down an address and phone numbers of a local marriage counselor and sexual addiction specialist.

That should do it.

[ovr-da-hill]

Of course a photo of her husband entering a bordello would be icing on the cake to cookie's recipe ...THEN put him in the never speak to again category!

But I do have to hand it to Cookie...that's a really good idea!

[Sheri]

some of my friends know about the "hobby" but  like I tell them it is a lot better and cheaper and safer to go there than go to a local bar  in many ways   he is a pussy whipped man if he cam not keep his mouth shut   I would be telling all in nice little hints to everyone!  No Fred you are not a pervert in any way  just a KSF!!! 

[double d]

Fred, your buddy is probably trying to win points with his wife at your expense.. He's probably up the creek with HER over his big damn mouth and trying to get the attention off of him. That's the way a back stabbing pussy does it ....
I, like Afriend, don't tell anyone about my hobby outside this community. Or at least I haven't yet. And I REALLY don't plan to after hearing this shit. One of my other board brothers got crossed up like this last year. Maybe he'll step up and reply to this..  Sorry to hear it happened to you brother.  D

[Jay]

I think the real issue has been sorely missed. 

FredT is pissed, rightfully so, because he was "outed" as to his participation in legal activities which just happen to be somewhat outside the parameters of normal society.  If you consider "normal" society as being people who consider themselves morally superior, saved, above "paying for it," and full of crap.  I know I do, there's just more of them than there are of us.

Some of you will recall that earlier this year I made a stink about the brothels up north demanding to see your I.D. before letting you in the door.  I made the argument that this hobby is, by itself, a potential cause of humiliation, job jeopardy (what if FredT was employed by the self-righteous woman he described?), or other woeful circumstances none of us needs to have in our lives.  The anonymity factor is HUGE in this hobby.  Without going into all the points again, the ladies are anonymous, and the guys have the expectation that going to a legal establishment will not come back to bite them in the butt like it did FredT.

Thank you, FredT, for showing all of us why being outed is no fun, and why collecting I.D.s at a brothel is a dangerous, rotten trend that should be opposed by anyone who would like to see the hobby continue without unintended consequences.   

[Dr. Who]

  Yikes, Fred!  If I were ever outed by a so called "friend", I'd be just as pissed as you!  The best solution is revenge!    ...just as Cookie Monster has stated in his post.  

Unfortunately, I don't believe our puritanical society is gonna change anytime soon, so I've always tried my best to keep my "hobby" a deep dark secret from my square world friends, acquaintances, and family (even though I'm not married).  It just isn't worth all of the aggravation of having to explain why I choose to partake in this "Legal" hobby.  I'm just glad that I have a few good friends that are all KSFs like you, so I don't have to worry about them spilling the beans to any of my square friends or family.  

[mr_paul]

The only people who know that I've been to brothels, besides the ladies in the brothel, are two women who I became involved with.  I figured brothels are part of my sexual history and they should know about it.  Then again, I haven't been bringing these women to family events, so there hasn't been a chance yet for them to spill the beans.  Another aspect, though, is that they are amazed at the amount of money that goes into visiting brothels.  I guess their eyes light up with dollar signs.

[Interested bystander]

Another aspect, though, is that they are amazed at the amount of money that goes into visiting brothels.  I guess their eyes light up with dollar signs.

That reminds me of a story Jenine told me.  When she went to work at Kitty's and was being trained she asked the girl training her how much she should charge and the girl told her the minimum was $100.  She said "what if they only wand a blowjob" and the girl repeated that the minimum was $100.  Jenine told me she immediately phoned her husband and said "you have no idea how much money you owe me"...lol.

[afriend]

That reminds me of a story Jenine told me.  When she went to work at Kitty's and was being trained she asked the girl training her how much she should charge and the girl told her the minimum was $100.  She said "what if they only wand a blowjob" and the girl repeated that the minimum was $100.  Jenine told me she immediately phoned her husband and said "you have no idea how much money you owe me"...lol.

LOL... That one belongs in a magazine, at the very least.

afriend