If a client sticks to the idea of "friends with benefits" way of thinking then everything is OK with me.
BUT...
When a client sends multiple emails each and every day (regardless of where I am: home or Nevada) telling me about everywhere he goes, what roads he drove on, how the traffic was at the time, what he has eaten and where, what laundry he did and how he sorted it, what he had to have done to his car, about his grandkids, his sisters, going to church, when he left, how long he stayed, etc. etc. etc. Along with I love you, I miss you, I need you by my side always, etc. etc. etc.
Get the picture?!
It is driving me CRAZY!!!
Sometimes I find myself thinking that I am just too nice...but, wait a minute, I am just being myself...I can't blame myself for this...or can I?!
I honestly just do not know what to do at this point! I have repeatedly tried my best to kindly explain to him that I am not in love with him, that I would not be "happier" having him in my life full time, that I am not moving to another state to be with him, etc. etc. etc. And yet the constant emails keep pouring in every single day...
And for those of you who may be wondering, no he is not a monger on this board. And, NO, Rand McNally, it is NOT "Red"...LOL!
As I have had others in the past that made "pests" of themselves I have always managed somehow to get thru to them that I am not looking for a permanent relationship (2 so far that I have had to refuse to continue to do business with) but I just cannot seem to get thru to this most recent one. I understand that he is older, alone and lonely, but I can't help that (as bad as that sounds).