When negotiating, what is better?

[ennio22]

Showing experience or not?
I am kinda new to the game (especially in this part of the world). I may be a little bit nervous the first time so I wonder if this may be bad when it comes to negotiate the price. They may think I am an easy prey.
On the other hand, showing experience may be annoying for the girl. I am not really sure what is better.

[COH]

Showing a lady experience with confidence.

 

[RoxyGold]

If there is a specific lady (or ladies) you are interested in, start some communication via email. When you already know each other a little bit, negotiating is much easier.

[KittiMinx]

If there is a specific lady (or ladies) you are interested in, start some communication via email. When you already know each other a little bit, negotiating is much easier.

Seconding this. Pretty much every brothel allows you to communicate with active courtesans through email, message boards, and approved social media. Go through forums and sites, find ladies who catch your eye, and strike up conversations.  That makes the negotiation process much easier - it really does.

Also just be courteous, respectful, and to the point. Know your budget and exactly what you want when you walk in the door and be up front about when you negotiate. Be confident but courteous. Doesn't take much!

[griszi]

All the stuff the ladies said + gather that experience and show it as you gain it because they are deal makers ... They are down for whatever ...

[RM]

If there is a specific lady (or ladies) you are interested in, start some communication via email. When you already know each other a little bit, negotiating is much easier.

Seconding this. Pretty much every brothel allows you to communicate with active courtesans through email, message boards, and approved social media. Go through forums and sites, find ladies who catch your eye, and strike up conversations.  That makes the negotiation process much easier - it really does.

Also just be courteous, respectful, and to the point. Know your budget and exactly what you want when you walk in the door and be up front about when you negotiate. Be confident but courteous. Doesn't take much!

It sounds like it's best to approach this is to lay out exactly what one would like to do as the 1st step in the negotiations so that the Courtesan knows what he is interested in doing so that a price point can be established.

Would be better for both the Client and Courtesan if he explains to you what he is interested in doing ( I would like to try A, B and C ), the Courtesan indicates how much that such services would cost and ( if the $$$ amount is more than what the Client is interested in paying ) then work out some "inbetween" price that the both of you can agree upon?

[Q]

Just walk into the brothel with a t shirt that says u got 400 bucks and you want a half and half with a few positions and a blowjob to start things off. You will be fine. The interested ladies will flock to you while the whale watchers will ignore you. Easy peasy.
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[roxanneprice]

Just walk into the brothel with a t shirt that says u got 400 bucks and you want a half and half with a few positions and a blowjob to start things off. You will be fine. The interested ladies will flock to you while the whale watchers will ignore you. Easy peasy.
Q

Oh Q! This may work for some, but other's may be interested in more or less. I hope no one takes this too seriously. Also lol about the term whale watchers. Whatever's clever.

[KittiMinx]

Just walk into the brothel with a t shirt that says u got 400 bucks and you want a half and half with a few positions and a blowjob to start things off. You will be fine. The interested ladies will flock to you while the whale watchers will ignore you. Easy peasy.
Q

Oh Q! This may work for some, but other's may be interested in more or less. I hope no one takes this too seriously. Also lol about the term whale watchers. Whatever's clever.

Depends on the whale too. Unless it's a wild orca about to give birth (which has yet to be recorded in the wild) or a not commonly documented ecotype.... or the 52hz whale! If they're still out there. Unless it's like that I'm not interested.

Now interesting people come around regardless of what's in their wallets... 

[RachelVarga]

If there is a specific lady (or ladies) you are interested in, start some communication via email. When you already know each other a little bit, negotiating is much easier.

I agree. If someone wants to see me I don't mind talking before hand. If they are serious then I like talking with them. It is so much easier to negotiate and I am easy to negotiate with anyways.


Especially first time visitors and virgins. I want their experience to be fun and as little stress as possible.

[isurfer]

Just walk into the brothel with a t shirt that says u got 400 bucks and you want a half and half with a few positions and a blowjob to start things off. You will be fine. The interested ladies will flock to you while the whale watchers will ignore you. Easy peasy.
Q

I like the idea. If not a t shirt, maybe a cap. Maybe have a SIN or LPIN Gathering logo on them or "Monger" or on a button to wear to show that you aren't entirely uninformed and that you are aware of this forum. Maybe buttons with different dollar amounts?

How much attention, other than laughter, would I get at Sheri's for wearing that 400 bucks t shirt? If it is crowded with other guys from Vegas, the ladies might make me sit there by myself, getting the silent treatment because of being too cheap and letting everyone else know that 400 is not enough.

[Q]

Just walk into the brothel with a t shirt that says u got 400 bucks and you want a half and half with a few positions and a blowjob to start things off. You will be fine. The interested ladies will flock to you while the whale watchers will ignore you. Easy peasy.
Q

I like the idea. If not a t shirt, maybe a cap. Maybe have a SIN or LPIN Gathering logo on them or "Monger" or on a button to wear to show that you aren't entirely uninformed and that you are aware of this forum. Maybe buttons with different dollar amounts?

How much attention, other than laughter, would I get at Sheri's for wearing that 400 bucks t shirt? If it is crowded with other guys from Vegas, the ladies might make me sit there by myself, getting the silent treatment because of being too cheap and letting everyone else know that 400 is not enough.

Depends entirely on the ladies. 400 bux is plenty at Sheris for a party as mentioned

[sportsguy]

There's a good chance the lady may ask you "is this your first time here" or "is this your first time at a brothel?". I've found that the majority of ladies end up asking me that in some way, shape or form. My advice to you is to lie! Lie, lie lie your ass off. Do not be the guy that says "hurrrrrrr yay George, yah this is mah first time here and I'm so excited to be hurr!" I'm not saying all the ladies will take advantage of this, but they use your experience (or lack of experience) to gauge how much they can get out of you. Don't be like the one guy that paid $3,000 a few years back. I won't blame the lady because she was able to get away with it, I'd do the same if I could. You'd have to be an idiot not to take it if you're the lady, but on the same hand you'd have to be an idiot to pay it. I'm just trying to give you a heads up. Her initial offer will sound insanely high. It is your job to negotiate it to a more realistic number.

[Glennster]

There's a good chance the lady may ask you "is this your first time here" or "is this your first time at a brothel?". I've found that the majority of ladies end up asking me that in some way, shape or form. My advice to you is to lie! Lie, lie lie your ass off. Do not be the guy that says "hurrrrrrr yay George, yah this is mah first time here and I'm so excited to be hurr!" I'm not saying all the ladies will take advantage of this, but they use your experience (or lack of experience) to gauge how much they can get out of you. Don't be like the one guy that paid $3,000 a few years back. I won't blame the lady because she was able to get away with it, I'd do the same if I could. You'd have to be an idiot not to take it if you're the lady, but on the same hand you'd have to be an idiot to pay it. I'm just trying to give you a heads up. Her initial offer will sound insanely high. It is your job to negotiate it to a more realistic number.

I disagree on this one.  Ladies will ask the "first-time" question as an ice breaker.  They know if you are a first-timer or newbie versus a regular by your mannerism and appearance.  I do agree that you need to watch out for the menu (whale or rookie) pricing.

[COH]

There's a good chance the lady may ask you "is this your first time here" or "is this your first time at a brothel?". I've found that the majority of ladies end up asking me that in some way, shape or form. My advice to you is to lie! Lie, lie lie your ass off. Do not be the guy that says "hurrrrrrr yay George, yah this is mah first time here and I'm so excited to be hurr!" I'm not saying all the ladies will take advantage of this, but they use your experience (or lack of experience) to gauge how much they can get out of you. Don't be like the one guy that paid $3,000 a few years back. I won't blame the lady because she was able to get away with it, I'd do the same if I could. You'd have to be an idiot not to take it if you're the lady, but on the same hand you'd have to be an idiot to pay it. I'm just trying to give you a heads up. Her initial offer will sound insanely high. It is your job to negotiate it to a more realistic number.

sportsguy

Absolutely agree with your post!  And absolutely suggest a potential client does not say he/she is new to visiting brothels!  Though might depend upon which brothel and/or who is the lady?  Some examples:

1) First time ever entering a brothel the hostess asked me, "Have you ever been here before?"  Knew I had to stretch the truth and responded, "No, but I have been to (Brothel X).  The next brothel I visited the hostess asked the exact same question, "Have you ever been here before?"  LOL same question was asked.  Therefore, a logically reason why a hostess and/or lady asked this question..... to find out if you're a newbie.

2) The first time experiencing a long and difficult negotiation the lady thought I was a newbie.  Sometime later I mentioned about partying with another lady, and finally the lady realized I wasn't newbie.

3) Moonlite Bunnyranch -- a lady did ask me, "Have you ever been here before?"  I replied, "No and I'm not new to visiting brothels."  After a failed negotiation and speaking with a few ladies..... Stacy Tyler who was giving me a lecture wanted to know where I partied with before?  who else I partied with before? and what I paid for my previous parties?  She also kept saying the prices on SIN are false.  After several hours in the Moonlite Bunnyranch some ladies probably still thought I was a newbie.