I hate the term "ATF" - All-Time-Favorite. Because with most guys, their ATF changes with the seasons, maybe from month to month.
I am and always have been a monogamous, one woman-man, both in real-life and in brothel life. In fact, I'm going to do a thread in the general discussion section later on that theme, because I have a lot to say on the subject and this is one hell of a place to bring something like that up, isn't it? lol
I went through a long period of self-induced celibacy, mainly because of a lack of interest, and I realized, that at the age of 66, if I was ever going to get my motor running again, it had better be damn soon. I went to Inez's in Elko last August and called for a lineup. I am notoriously picky. The only woman I saw that i wanted was the last one in line, Lily.
The strange thing is, well one of the strange things, is that I have never been particularly attracted to Asian women, nor "spinners". Spinners being small, petite women. I felt instantly comfortable with her, because she did not ask any questions about me personally. She kind of guided me through the party, we di things mostly her way, and I was given an earth-shattering orgasm that I can only compare to an atomic explosion. I went back to see her two days later and was given the same treatment.
So I had my libido resurrected BIG TIME. I was on a high for two months afterward, i had some kind of weird energy running through my body and thought of sex constantly. I then went back to see her, and have continued to see her for a total of 11 times in the past 8 months.
One advantage to seeing the same woman is that you become familiar with what they do, what you want to do with them, to the point it is like a "parallel relationship". Like I get the good things I want out of a relationship with her without the responsiblity of a real, full-time relationship. Of course, I could probably get that out of almost any provider. She just happened to be my first in a long time, so I hooked on to her. What then is so special about her?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I just find her one of the most attractive women I've seen in a long time. A petite Asian woman with lots of tattoos. Who would have dreamed?
She is skilled and talented and knows what she's doing. Her English is not perfect, I don't understand everything she says or writes (we text back and forth a lot) but I understand enough. I like her personality, I like her on a level that goes beyond sex, but that's because of my monogamous nature. How about the guy that just wants sex with her and may then just move on to somebody else? Give her a try. She is one of the five finalists for Courtesan of the Year, and not by mistake. She will show you a good time, she is a true professional and knows that it is her job to please a man. She has given me everything I've wanted and much MORE.
PS - though she is the only courtesan I see, I won't call her my ATF. I guess I will call her my Absolute Favorite. That works.