It varies for me, sometimes it's visual, other times it's getting comfortable with the lady, still other times the process of elimination. I remember the first time I partied with Desiree', it was when she walked into the parlor in "hot pants". With Eden Michelle we talked in the parlor for about 2 hours, and I finally suggested we go to her room, and she said, "Let's hurry I can’t wait to get your balls in my mouth!" What can you say to that? Several times at the rural brothels there was only 1 lady working so its either yeah or nay. So you are always taking a chance that she'll be as good as she looks or talks. I've only had 2 bad parties, Jewel at Salt Wells, she just wasn't into it, and Princess at WHCR, who was all about the upsell. What makes a great party is a lady who likes sex as much as I do, or even more. At LPIN Gathering XIII with Athena Snow @ the BR. It's like when she asks, "What do want to do?" and I just say "Everything." She responds, "All right!"