a question...

[Interested bystander]

This is brought about primarily by Allenesq's posts about partying multiple times (7 times in 5 days and 30+ times since April) with one girl.  There have also been others recently, dating back to LPIN Gathering, who have partied multiple times with the same lady in a short period of time, sometimes the same day.  I'm curious about the why of this.  Back in my LPIN heyday I had an ATF who I saw multiple times but I seldom partied with her more than once per month.  One time I did party with her twice in one week but usually it was once or twice per month.  I saw other ladies in between and I think if I had partied with her more often the spark and passion of the parties would have been affected.  I can understand multiple parties with someone you click with but I don't understand the incredible frequency I've seen recently.  Thoughts?

[ovr-da-hill]

I can't comment about the same girl 7 times in 5 days.......I would just like to be able to do it 7 times in 5 days with any girl or girls.   

[katietaylor]

IMO, the more I party with the same guy, the better the party gets. We become more comfortable with each other and I learn exactly what it is that he likes. Every guy is very different in bed so even though the first time can be great, I feel like every time thereafter gets exponentially better.

[Interested bystander]

IMO, the more I party with the same guy, the better the party gets.

I will agree with that, being familiar with a person and comfortable with them can make a big difference in a party.  I tend to be someone who wants something different.  What does that girl's pussy look like?   How does her skin feel?   Things like that.   Now, I have had ladies I repeat with and I probably had 10-20 parties with my ATF from the old days before she retired but even in my heavy visiting time I was pretty much a once per day guy.  I can only remember doing two parties in a day once and the second wasn't as good as it would have been if I had waited a day or so and that was with a different woman, if I had tried that with the same woman I think it would have been a real disappointment.   I don't know, I guess it's just me but when I have someone I really like, and really click with, the time between parties just seems to make the party better.   It's difficult to explain because the desire and passion, fake or real, has to be from both participants.

A big thanks to Allenesq for his explanation also.  I think I can see your viewpoint.  I think the difference is proximity.  When I lived in Oklahoma and would visit Nevada I would sit in the casino and gamble all day long for my entire trip.   It was only after I had been there many times that I even took in a show.   Now that I live in Nevada I seldom go to a casino.  When friends from out of town are here I go with them or occasionally Sheri and I will go to one to have dinner and I will play a little blackjack or Pai Gow Poker afterwards.   The difference is proximity.  The casinos are there all the time and I can go anytime I want so I don't really feel an urge to go today.

[shooter]

   As I get older I am starting to look at things a little differently.  I finished my quest to party in every brothel in Nevada a while back.  I loved the variety and the suspense of who or what I would find in each house.  Now I find myself thinking about returning to the same ladies who were providing the best parties to me.  The variety does not seem as important  as it once did.  I followed Chay to four different houses and the parties kept geting better as we became comfortable with each other. So I see allenesq's point, that if it is a great party why not repeat as many times as you want.  My travels allowed me to sort through many different ladies, so I still say variety is nice. But I think you will see me return to certain ladies more often now.

[Ebadger9]

I like going back to the same lady if I've had a great party for a couple reasons:

1. I like pretty much knowing what I'm gonna get.  It's the same at any restaurant; I get the same thing off the menu pretty much every time  I hate being disappointed when I know I could've gotten what I knew I already liked.

2.  This isn't a cheap hobby, and I want to maximize my enjoyment per dollar spent.  I personally can't afford to always be sampling, and don't want to feel like I wasted money on a bad experience.  Which kinda relates back to #1.

I like to save the sampling for when a fav isn't working.  If it's good, then I'll probably see her again.

[Speed Racer]

I can't comment about the same girl 7 times in 5 days.......I would just like to be able to do it 7 times in 5 days with any girl or girls.   

I hear ya, ODH! I think I could handle it (7x5) physically, but just wish I were presently in a financial position to be able to experience one lady, for one time! It's hell being broke!!!

Best regards,
Speed Racer

[Hiking Guy]

This is brought about primarily by Allenesq's posts about partying multiple times (7 times in 5 days and 30+ times since April) with one girl.  There have also been others recently, dating back to LPIN Gathering, who have partied multiple times with the same lady in a short period of time, sometimes the same day.  I'm curious about the why of this.  Back in my LPIN heyday I had an ATF who I saw multiple times but I seldom partied with her more than once per month.  One time I did party with her twice in one week but usually it was once or twice per month.  I saw other ladies in between and I think if I had partied with her more often the spark and passion of the parties would have been affected.  I can understand multiple parties with someone you click with but I don't understand the incredible frequency I've seen recently.  Thoughts?

Interested bystander,

For me it's mainly proximity. If I lived within a reasonable driving distance (6 hours or less) to the ranches, I'd probably have fewer parties per trip but instead have many more trips, especially weekend trips where I'd just party twice. Since I come from the east coast and only make it out to Nevada maybe 3 times per year, I like to get in as much partying as my body can handle and that means about 1 party per day and maybe 2 parties per day on days I feel "lucky" or on a special event like my birthday. Also, when I find a lady I really like partying with I tend to keep partying with her and save my "scouting" visits to when my ATFs aren't working. During LPIN Gathering13 I partied with April@Wildhorse 3 times that trip and have done the same during other trips with Candy@Sagebrush, Annie@Inez's and also with LindaMarie(Mustang, Monas, WildWestSaloon).  My ATF of my ATFs would have to be LindaMarie. I think I've had 16 parties with her and would have had many more if she had been available during all of my trips to Nevada. If I know she's working, I'd schedule multiple parties with her each trip. For me, she is a guaranteed good time and is one of the few ladies who can "take me to the finish line" every time we party.

Basically, a great GFE lady who is affordable for me and with the skills to make me "happy" every time we party is a lady I'll always want to repeat with, even multiple times, during my trips to Nevada.