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Offline JarcontheMighty

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Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« on: May 23, 2023, 08:39:27 PM »
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Pretty new here and have been searching through the forums on this topic but either I am blind or just didn't seem this question had been asked. I plan to have my first ever party in July for my 40th and have been in communication with one lady but then decided I might as well go all in for a threesome. I did mention this to the original lady while at the same time starting to talk with the other lady with transparency being clear on my requests. I obviously understand that each lady will negotiate thier own price but how to you merge the conversation between the two prior to my visit? Seems like one wants to know who the other is and the other suggested wait until I show up. Completely possible I am just overthinking and reading to much into this.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #1 on: May 23, 2023, 09:12:51 PM »
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It's usually best to ask one lady to choose the other lady. Or have you choose the other lady from a group of ladies she recommends.
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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2023, 05:07:58 AM »
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Agree completely with Q. Each time I've had a two girl party I've picked the first lady, either making an appointment or out of a lineup and then told her I wanted a two girl and asked who she likes to work with. I think the chemistry between the two girls is more important than getting my top two picks out of a given lineup in the same room.

Based on what you wrote, I'm guessing the first lady wants to plan with you, and the second lady wants to recommend her preferred partner on the day. You mention transparency but also seems like they don't currently each know who the other lady you're talking to is, which seems like a potential problem. If you're really set on these two ladies specifically, I'd say tell them both now, I guess, but you might be better off picking one and letting her guide you to a second.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2023, 07:27:30 AM »
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        Up arrows not working this am but completely agree with Q and Mr. Lloyd, and would add that it helps if you know the primary date, or both and know that they are good friends, will be worth it, if not, might as well rent a porn movie and stay home with your own imagination. These are not cheap dates, can be wonderful beyond all expectation or a huge waste of money, always strive for the first choice

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2023, 04:41:03 PM »
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Appreciate the advice from everyone.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #5 on: May 25, 2023, 03:15:39 AM »
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I could be wrong, but the advice everyone gave was letting the lady he was in contact pick the other lady when he stated in his question that the other lady was already selected.

Sorry, but Q's advice was useless to the point of almost being insulting. I suggest Q re-read the actual question asked and respond to that. What you gave was an unsolicited opinion. If that's what we are doing here, I would offer: don't do it. I've had threesomes and a foursome. I don't find they are double the fun. IF money is the concern, have two separate parties for the same money, IMO.

Also, if you are all going to accept the advice to let the lady choose, also accept that she is working for herself and not for you. Obviously there are some combos that work better than others, but at some point the client is the client; the lady is not the client.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #6 on: May 25, 2023, 06:03:35 AM »
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I always have a two girl party at Mona's with my favorite ladies. If you have 2 specific ladies in mind let them both know who the other lady is, and ask what they think about your choice. I agree with Q it's best to let the 1st lady pick the 2nd lady. You can always say no if you don't like her choice.

On my second visit to Mons's after a great party the lady asked if I had ever had a two girl party. Later sitting at the bar with her I said I would like to schedule a two girl party, and before I could pick the other girl she jumped off the bar stool and came back with a girl. She was the exact lady I had in mind. Not everyone likes 2 girl parties, but with the right ladies at the right brothel they can be a lot of fun. When I visit Sheri's I never consider two girls because it would be way more than I want to spend, But at Mona's the price is reasonable.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #7 on: May 25, 2023, 12:48:54 PM »
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I always have a two girl party at Mona's with my favorite ladies. If you have 2 specific ladies in mind let them both know who the other lady is, and ask what they think about your choice. I agree with Q it's best to let the 1st lady pick the 2nd lady. You can always say no if you don't like her choice.

The "you can always say no" is definitely important and something I should have thought to say earlier. Personally the times I've had two girl parties there haven't been any ladies in the lineups I have specifically not been interested in, which made it a non-issue for me, but if a lady suggests another lady you aren't interested in you can and should politely say so. I was speaking to my own experience and what worked out well for me.

Given that you've already started talking to both ladies, JarcontheMighty, I do think you're probably fine if you just tell both of them who the other lady is. Maybe each of them is who the other would recommend. In the event that you get pushback, you've still got plenty of time to work out a different plan if necessary.

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #8 on: May 25, 2023, 04:50:59 PM »
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Lessee here... the question was how do you merge the conversation between the two. My "unsolicited opinion" (LOL) that is borderline insulting  was to have the first lady choose the second or offer a group of ladies that she likes to party with. I think this helps the ladies to choose who they are comfortable partying with. If she offers a lady from the available pool she is comfortable with, but you didn't have that lady in mind, you can always politely say no thank you. The last thing I need is 2 ladies having sex with me that are not comfortable with each other.
I'm pretty sure that this method opens up the conversation between the monger and the prospective ladies of the threesome.  At least, it always has for me! Once the ladies are selected,  head off to the negotiation roomwith both of them and be specific. That's pretty much how you do it.
Based on previous posts in this thread, it seems like others agree too.
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« Last Edit: May 25, 2023, 04:53:39 PM by Q »

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #9 on: May 26, 2023, 08:15:46 AM »
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I had a threesome at Kitty's about 22 years ago, with Daisy (cute curvy young brunette) and a short blonde cute spinner, forgot her name.  Only paid $200 for 30 minutes.  Dang that was fun!  Armond Mclovin

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #10 on: May 26, 2023, 06:19:40 PM »
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That was an interesting way to characterize it ("insulting") when you were just pointing out a better approach.

I ended up with a duo early on (in another place than Nevada where outcall was legal but incall was not) in which the two ladies did not like each other much and would not have chosen to work together. What had happened was the original second lady got the flu a few days before our party and the agency pulled in a replacement without much regard for the first lady's opinion . The dynamic felt weird and it was a lot less fun than I expected. I found out all that later because lady #1 was a regular of mine for a whole and she told me later.  The postscript on that one is that I did another duo with her later with a lady SHE chose and it was AWESOME.

So your advice was good. It would be NICE if we could just mix any two ladies we wanted to get with, but ignoring the ladies' comfort level does not have a positive effect on the party.  Just sayin'



Lessee here... the question was how do you merge the conversation between the two. My "unsolicited opinion" (LOL) that is borderline insulting  was to have the first lady choose the second or offer a group of ladies that she likes to party with. I think this helps the ladies to choose who they are comfortable partying with. If she offers a lady from the available pool she is comfortable with, but you didn't have that lady in mind, you can always politely say no thank you. The last thing I need is 2 ladies having sex with me that are not comfortable with each other.
I'm pretty sure that this method opens up the conversation between the monger and the prospective ladies of the threesome.  At least, it always has for me! Once the ladies are selected,  head off to the negotiation roomwith both of them and be specific. That's pretty much how you do it.
Based on previous posts in this thread, it seems like others agree too.
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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #11 on: May 27, 2023, 03:02:42 AM »
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That was an interesting way to characterize it ("insulting") when you were just pointing out a better approach.

The OP had already selected the two ladies in question. What part of 'let the lady choose' is going to be helpful in the question he was actually asking?

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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #12 on: May 27, 2023, 05:36:32 AM »
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That was an interesting way to characterize it ("insulting") when you were just pointing out a better approach.

The OP had already selected the two ladies in question. What part of 'let the lady choose' is going to be helpful in the question he was actually asking?
The statement that the original poster made was: "Seems like one wants to know who the other is and the other suggested wait until I show up."

This drove my response to give the poster insight into the WHY. Very helpful IMHO. Others agree. It's the polite thing to do to open up communications.
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Re: Dos and don'ts on negotiating a threesome with two ladies
« Reply #13 on: May 28, 2023, 08:00:59 PM »
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great question - Eastcoast bob is having a hard time getting to Nevada.  Its all about  the details but rest assured,  at some point I will get there and Ive been debating whether my first main event is going to be 1 or 2 ladies.   Im leaning towards 2 at once with the lady choosing the lady.   Finally retired.  Married for 30+ years.  Havent been laid for 10 years.  got to make it worth it.   Roxy Gold is high on the list.