So, why am I here?
They have cake and beautiful women. (Well, they may be out of cake.)
I'm here because I needed something in my life. I won't get all into that personal discussion, but that need led me to the Bunnyboard eventually. Well, that's just a great big advertisement place for Hof ladies. Still, it is way more active than any of the couple of individual house forums. But I stayed there awhile and discovered SIN. SIN was awesome in that it was loaded with information. It helped me immensely with that "something" in my life.
Think of the episode of SEINFELD about George's WORLDS COLLIDING. (If you don't know what I am talking about, basically "Independent George" hung out with his friends to escape other "worlds" or aspects of his life, and did not want the fiance of "Relationship George" to start being part of his world with his friends. When worlds collide, they explode.)
I can have serious discussions on politics and theology and morality and YADDA YADDA YADDA with others outside of this forum, but I really cannot discuss many of the things here in my other world unless I am prepared for my worlds to collide and explode. My personal need of this "something" in life was a secret side of me. I am not free to discuss it with coworkers, family, virtually all of my friends. And I stayed on SIN to read about others who either need or just like that "something," so I could discuss it with them.