This discussion brings up a valid question in my mind: When a client is going to party with a new lady, to what extent should he or she notify/seek approval for each action? I tend to be very careful and communicate both before and during the party what I'd like to do. Other mongers have stated that all of that should be covered by terms like "half and half", "full service", "GFE", etc. What do the mongers and the ladies here think?
I discuss everything, although DATO is not something I am interested in--either doing or having it done. For something that specific and specialized you had beter discuss it beforehand.
When I talk to a lady about partying, I basically tell them that I am interested in kissing (no tongue necessary) breast play, mutual oral, and sex in 2-3 positions for X amount of time (usually an hour) for (insert reasonable price).
For me has led to quick and easy negotiations.
People run into trouble when they assume that they might be able to do something that they want to do without asking about it and find out in the middle of the party.
I've had one lady tell me in response that she doesn't kiss on the mouth and doesn't allow oral without a dental dam. As far as I am concerned, this is her right. I thanked her for her time and we did not party.
Now imagine I negotiated a party without being specific about activities and tried to kiss this beautiful lady? She would have said no and backed away and I would have felt that I had wasted my money and been mad at myself for not discussing it before hand.