Kalli,
It varies with my mood going in, but having some kind of a connection with the lady (or ladies) going into the party usually results in the best experiences. That allows us both to relax and have uninhibited fun. Unfortunately, I have not had any real-life intimate relationships in recent years, so I highly value the slow, sensual, GFE-type activities when I come to play in a Nevada brothel. But I also almost always enjoy the "no-holds-barred" aspects of a great PSE-style party as well. Those rare times when I can combine the two in one session, well it's usually off the charts fantastic!
Warmest regards,
Speed Racer
P.S., That piece of artwork is fantastic, kudos to it's creator! I'm quite sure he (I'm assuming it was a male client of yours) was obviously inspired by your beauty, grace, intelligence, genuine warmth, radiance, and charm. The result was quite spectacular.