Top Five Things that Get You Going?!

[Lucielove_elko]

What are the top five things that someone can do that really get you going? Before the sex happens- wondering what cute things, moves, outfits, etc really get you turned on and in the mood?

[Jmc1590]

Touch is right near the top of the list. A caress, a hug, or even a full blown massage. Touch / physical contact is a biggie.
Attire is nice, and provides a level of visual stimulus. But much like gift wrap on Christmas morning,  once the unwrapping begins, it's us all found waded up on the floor!

[Jack Rackham]

1) Eye contact/visual cues
2) A woman who smells great
3) Good conversation/mental sex
4) Touching/running fingers through hair
5) Light kissing and nibbling around the neck/ears/nipples (hers and mine)

In that order.

[Kevinz0071]

1. That I want you look in her eyes and a smile
2. Lots of kissing
3. When we kiss she knows where to put her hands
4. When the party just feels natural like we've been lovers for years even though it's the first time
5. When she kisses that soft spot behind my ear

[flagrunner]

1. Sitting at the bar with me and dealing with my awkward chat, and pretending to enjoy it!
2. Whispering in my ear that we should party.
3. Teasing, at all stages
4. Random touches when chatting
5. Staying dressed and allowing me to help you undress in stages.

Hope to meet you in February

[FumbleNutts]

That wonderful smile that says I like you 
Certain smells, like a good smelling perfume or freshly showered 
Understanding I'm not the greatest conversationalist, but I sure appreciate your time 
That initial hug that's firm and comforting when meeting you 
Pushing up my sleeves, checking out my ink, and then rubbing my upper arms saying, "oh my" 

[jessy_elko]

I like passionate sex. Lol I love kissing lol- it gets me going in an instant especially with the right partner lol

[hirohito]

First is an absolutely pleasant attitude. Followed by passionate kissing, letting me unclasp her bra, us carressing each other, and a seductive voice.

[Lucielove_elko]

Touch is right near the top of the list. A caress, a hug, or even a full blown massage. Touch / physical contact is a biggie.
Attire is nice, and provides a level of visual stimulus. But much like gift wrap on Christmas morning,  once the unwrapping begins, it's us all found waded up on the floor!

Massage is great!! Speaking of that, I could really use a good massage sometime soon! Clothes on the floor or hanging off your body- love that too!

[Lucielove_elko]

I like passionate sex. Lol I love kissing lol- it gets me going in an instant especially with the right partner lol

Same here I really like that :-)

[Jmc1590]

Touch is right near the top of the list. A caress, a hug, or even a full blown massage. Touch / physical contact is a biggie.
Attire is nice, and provides a level of visual stimulus. But much like gift wrap on Christmas morning,  once the unwrapping begins, it's us all found waded up on the floor!

Massage is great!! Speaking of that, I could really use a good massage sometime soon! Clothes on the floor or hanging off your body- love that too!

Already planned, Darling. Already planned...

[mollyblythe]

Great question!

1. Atmosphere- if we’re in a rush or things aren’t comfortable, it’s hard to truly get into it. Being relaxed is key!
2. Touch/breathing/caressing- just getting used to the feel of each other’s bodies. Everyone’s body is so different and reacts differently to touch. Those first few minutes of touching really get you used to each other and in the mood for a lot more.
3. Talking- I personally love a bit of talking to connect at first, whether it’s dirty talk, talking about what we’re going to do or just murmuring nice little things to each other. And hey, compliments are always nice.
4. I have a total thing for hands on my hair! Touch my hair and I’m your girl.
5. Unless my partner is quite shy or submissive, I really enjoy a confident man (or woman!) who knows what they want. There’s usually quite a size difference because I’m so small, so I love feeling that.

[Das74]

I like when a lady undresses me, or at least unbuttons my shirt or unzips my pants.  So much more sensual than when she just says ‘get naked’.

[ChicagoBob]

Passion
Self-confidence
Good hygiene
Sincerity
And most important, a good sense of humor!