What exactly IS freaky?

[portermorgan]

Someone asked me today, how I like it. Instinctually & out of habit, I responded that I like it "on the freaky side". After thinking about it though, I decided that I responded that way, not based on what I thought, but based on how others may perceive my tastes. Sure, I like nasty talk & don't especially mind being called a dirty little courtesan during sex but is that freaky? On the grand scale of possibilities, I think, a resounding no. Ok...I enjoy spanking, both giving & receiving, & I definitely want to see everything that were doing. Is that freaky? Probably not. That's just being tactilely & visually oriented. I like to see you doing someone else & I want you to watch me with someone else (gender not important) Again, just visually oriented, like live porn (I love porn). I enjoy role playing but doesn't everyone? I enjoy a variety of people & positions but don't they say that variety is the spice of life? I enjoy (really really enjoy) being dominant. I'm not mean but a little bite for you here & there, maybe a pinch on your nipples with my nails, just enough to make you say ouch. Are we getting to freaky yet? Hmmm, could be, could be not. Water sports anyone? Yeah, I'm down for that too. Freaky? I don't know. Breaking it all down as individual acts, it all seems pretty benine to me. Taken as a collective, maybe I am a little bit of a freak-a-leek but I think maybe I just prefer my sex on the creative side. What about you? Where is your freak line in the sand?

[Interested bystander]

Ok, when you start talking about seeing what you're doing and love bites on the nipples you're getting into my territory. I hate it when I go into a party and the girl turns the lights way down.  Give me some floodlights. 

[Oddball]

I'm pretty tame in the sack, but I'd think the line for freaky starts with the involvement of animals... Also, choking (that's a little risky in my book).  The drawing of blood, bruising and such also cross that line.

Most anything short of that (wordplay) is just dirty, not necessarily freaky.

As for Domination/Submission and such, freaky isn't the word I'd use for those.

None of the above interest me personally.  I'm more of a GFE man.

[Busguy1966]

Freaky is and can be doing things that nobody would do I say turn up the lights get out a camera and go live! Let everyone else wish they were me!!! I havent seen anything to freaky for a long time or at least that incident with the goats!
Porter you are a hot lady I would love to show you a freeky time LOL!
Busguy1966

[portermorgan]

Interested bystander & busguy should visit my room, I'll be happy to see you in the daytime & I'll open the blinds to let in plenty of light. Call me a bad girl because I want to see it all just as much as you do. I also must agree with busguy & oddball on the animals. I'm open to more than most (I think) but I'm not going to get it on with a goat, donkey, horse or anything else with fur, feathers, scales or fins. Choking...mmmmm, undecided on that. Blood...nope. Bruising, however, I must admit that I'm ok with in certain circumstances. I find that bruises or marks left in hidden areas, that others cannot see, left by a particularly hot lover, as a reminder of previous activities is an incredible turn on when viewed in the following days. It's not something that I would allow from just anyone but I won't rule it out altogether.

[PassionSeeker]

Everything that turns ME on is normal -  that weird shit that YOU'RE doing is freaky. ;D

[Busguy1966]

Porter I have met you and seen your toys and room LOL! Remember me !! Dah!
Busguy1966 /terry

[portermorgan]

Amen passionseeker

[Busguy1966]

I know how to turn you on!!! try me?
busguy1966 /Terry

[Michael]

Also, choking (that's a little risky in my book).  The drawing of blood, bruising and such also cross that line.

Good call, Oddball.  I was asked to do that during a party and there was no way I could do that. 

[portermorgan]

You try me busguy!!!!! I'm curious to know what "that" is michael.

[sportsman]

IMAGINATION is everything in any kind of party...The freaker the imagination, the sexier time someone can have...
And multiple participation is always fun...3 guys, 2 girls...2 guys, 2 girls ...eight guys, seven girls...done em all (sort of)...

8) 8) 8) 8) :-X :-X :-X :-X

[Demosthenes]

It turns out that 'freaky' is a moveable feast; one person's voyage beyond Neptune is another's ho-hum vanilla trip to Bed Bath & Beyond. Maybe with a side trip to Home Depot. My personal terra incognita has greatly diminished over the years but there are still some bits of undiscovered country, I'm sure. I don't have a driving passion to push the envelope but can't say I'm not open to exploration in the appropriate setting. Mostly I just try to have fun and hope that my partner(s) does/do too. In that context, 'freaky' is a means to an end rather than destination unto itself. That said, amorous activities while observed, recorded or broadcast are always freaky. And kind of unsettling.

With regard to lighting, it's obviously true that more lumens are going to improve my ability to see her and what's going on but what's not always appreciated is that she can also see me more clearly. Even with my eyes closed, poor dear.

[wayne2o1]

 :D :D If I choke anyone it would be My ex and her attorney ..LOL  ... I am not into Freaky so much My Ex was into some weird Stuff ?? and I feel for her New Hubby :o ..But to be serious I am not into choking and Whips and No Darn Handcuffs  ::)...I like My sex like I do My Basketball 1 on 1 ..  8) 8) 8)

[Sonja]

Freaky is great sex spice so just because something is freaky doesn't mean I don't want to at least try it...

UNLESS it includes non-human animals, minors, anyone being forced to do something they don't want to be forced to do, or excrement.